Girls and What I Find Hot and Not About Them

You know one question i'm asked on a consistent basis is where's your girlfriend, well I don't have one and its by choice. Sure there are plenty of women out there in the world to choose from but why go out and seek someone when the right might just fall in your lap. For all I know I may have found them or I may have passed them I don't know, but that's not what this is about this is about what I find attractive in a girl well more importantly INSTANT hot. Now those who know me know that i'm not a complicated guy I live a very simple life some say too simple but hey its my life and not yours. Well anyway everyday I leave the house everyday, and everyday I leave I see what can be described in between classy to hoochie there are all kinds of women out there, and not all of them are attractive and not all of them are unattractive. Well let's start off with what I don't like.

Dont's

*Loud- Any girl I can hear 20 yards away just talking to one other person or sitting in a room 5 tables down over the rest of the room is just flat out rude. Especially those who are on the phone and everyone can hear there conversation.
*Extreme Hair- There's a very large difference between a hairdo and hairdon't and some girls take it to the extreme. Now If you're going to throw streaks in your hair a hint of color is perfectly fine or fain't highlight like you nnotice them but they blend in are ok, even dyeing your hair is ok is good as long as it isn't extreme like walking around with Magic blue in your head for a month and your personality doesn't fit. Like I can see it with punk girls or goth girls because it suits there style, but if you going extreme and your personality ain't matching it then please don't do it. Especially if you paying money for one night and stuck with it for 3 weeks it just ain't right.
*Control freaks- this is one that us guys just can't seem to escape. All girls no matter who they are and no matter their personality will always want things their way. Now i'm a firm believer in keeping your girl happy because if she isn't she'll let you know but for a girl to force her will upon me just isn't gonna fly. I don't care how hot she is, or what she can do for me there's not enough things in the world to force myself to give in to belittling myself as a man in order to keep her happy. There's only so much anyone can take before they break and for a girl to try and come and change who I am how I live and what I do with my life by force isn't going to happen. Sure you can suggest somethings but don't force them otherwise you can force yourself out the door.
*Clingy- Ok I know you like me and I know you want to be around me but don't constantly cling to me like i'm dying of cancer and have on 2 hours to live. There's a difference in showing affection and being a parasite know and learn the difference.
*Smokers- Self explanatory if you smoke then to each they own
*Drunks- OK I get it people drink and I have no problem with that there's no problem with having a few drinks every now and then, but if you drink to get drunk every time you open up some alcohol then there's no need of me getting to know you. I'm not your designated driver, I'm not around to control you if you get out of control or over emotional I say these things because I have seen them and experienced them. its not fun and its not attractive by any means.
*Attention Whores- Ok there's nothing wrong with looking good, there's nothing wrong with makeup enhanced beauty is perfectly fine but its when these things get taken to levels of 'Hey everyone look at me'. This comes in the form of revealing clothes, big mouths, overdoing makeup and many other factors. there's a difference between looking good and being a walking billboard, don't advertise yourself for attention and those that go after that attention only want one thing in return so those I avoid as well.

Well those pretty much sum up what detracts from a girl lets talk about what makes them stand out in my eyes (Remember this is just my opinion on what makes a girl hot not necessarily what i'm looking for but what makes them stand out from the rest)

*Natural Beauty- A girl who keeps herself looking good without enhancing her look through artificial means shows that she is confident in herself and knows she doesn't have to put up a front in order to look good. Natural beauty is everything to me. It represents that she does feel good about herself and doesn't care about what you think accept her for who she is. There's nothing hotter than a naturally sexy girl.
*In Shape- This is huge now when I say in shape I don't mean she's an athlete but that she can keep up in physical activity. When I say this I mean she can go out for a light jog with me and not complain about the heat or getting tired 30 seconds into the run. One who isn't afraid to get a little dirty a little sweaty through different activities. Is willing to to get out and have fun under the sun.
*Can Cook- Any guy out there pretty much can agree with this. If a girl can cook in a variety of ways from traditional American to Italian to Soul Food to Asian. She doesn't need to know how to cook in all of these ways but any of these will do.
*Likes Sports- Once again a HUGE one for me, it's one thing for a girl to watch sports with you and you educate her on the game that's fine and dandy nothing wrong with that, but a girl that can come up to me and say 'Did you see how Tom Brady had the 5th most passing yards in a game last night' THAT"S HOT!!! She doesn't have to be a sports guru but if she's involved enough in it to know the players that's a definite plus.
*Can Think for Herself- There's nothing more attractive than a girl who has her OWN mind and i'm not saying to the point where she shuns your ideas that's more along the lines of don't tell me what to do I don't need you , but I'm talking about the one's who know what they want and know how they can get there, whether on their own or with the help of others. A girl with a good head on her shoulders is always hot to me. An independent thinker and knows what she wants whether its a life goal or a short term goal in order to get somewhere closer its always good to find a girl who can think and act for herself and knows what she wants for herself.
*Gamer- Any girl who can play video games and be competitive in them is INSTANT HOT!!
*Independent- Any girl who can show that she is strong willed and can survive on her own is HOT!! A lot of guys may fear this in a girl but its a trait that separates those who need to hinge onto a security blanket of some kind from those who can take a bull by the horns, it shows good strong character.
*She Can Kick My Ass- Any girl who has the ability to kick my ass is hot and like it was once stated in a great movie 'Don't let the old age fool you, I ain't no easy win'. Something about an athletically gifted girl who can fight that adds to their sex appeal.

Well those are a good majority of factors that I believe set a girl apart from being awesome or not. Remember this is my opinion and not necessarily what i'm looking for in a girl just the things that stand out if I'm being introduced to them or find out through conversation or however I may discover these things.